How to signal to other drivers - Chris M
I was travelling along the M27 this morning, when I saw in front a Focus with an almost flat rear offside tyre. Being in a helpful mood I pulled alongside (he was in the middle lane and I in the outside), sounded my horn and pointed to the rear tyre. He nodded and moved over into the clear nearside lane. I pulled away feeling a warm glow of satisfaction having perhaps prevented a blowout and the subsequent possible consequences.

After a few hundred yards I looked in the mirror expecting to see him on the hard shoulder. But no, he was pulling back into the middle lane ready to pass a lorry. Oh well I thought, I tried. Just then a cloud of smoke appeared as the tyre burst. As far as I could see, no accident resulted.

The rest of my journey to work was occupied by wondering what's the best way to tell someone they are about to have a blowout. Obviously sounding the horn and pointing wasn't understood by this chap, as he thought it meant move over and don't hog the middle lane.

Any ideas?

Chris M
How to signal to other drivers - LHM
Chris,

Whilst I fully appreciate your best intentions, I think there's a big risk that attempts to 'communicate' with other drivers can be mis-interpreted - possibly causing an accident, or an outbreak of 'road rage' :-(

Use of the horn, flashing lights, gesticulating etc. have varying interpretations, depending on the experience/awareness/temperament of the 'recipient'.

On a motorway, it might be possible to use the emergency telephones to alert traffic police - but you can only do so much..........
How to signal to other drivers - Rob C
Abso-blooming-lutely. I once tried to tell a driver behind me he had no lights on (at night obviously) by flashing my rear fogs. When the traffic stopped, he jumped out and ran up to my car, in a furious mood.
Luckily the traffic in front cleared, and I was able to drive away. Unfortunately, the devil in me then caused me to continually taunt him by stopping until he caught up and then driving off a bit. He ended up some 400yds from his car, which was now blocking the road. Hilarious fun if somewhat dangerous, but then I always keep my doors locked and Kenneth Noye was already in prison
How to signal to other drivers - googolplex
well if they have no lights on and its getting dark, a good sharp flash of full beam is just deserts...
However, I can't say that I haven't tried to signal to other drivers in various sorts of ways and such signals invariably get misunderstood...(Luckily, I'm not thinking of putting in for an equity card)...road rage is the most likely outcome...

The moral to the tale is obviously to take Ripley's advice, ignore the problem, and concentrate on ones own safety at the wheel. Splodgeface
How to signal to other drivers - MatthewH
I had a car follow me out of town the other night without any lights on, no ordinary car though but a police car! I thought I'd risk flashing my fogs at him once, but he didn't put his lights on until we hit an unlit stretch of road. And from where the police station is in that town he would have drove quite a distance without lights on. Shame I didn't get his number, might have been worth a bribe or two :-)
How to signal to other drivers - Cliff Pope
I agree - it is usually pretty pointless trying to signal. I once tried to tell someone that his large semi-rigid inflatable speedboat was about to blow off his roofrack. Overtaking slowly, with my passenger pointing up at his roof, had no effect whatsoever. It was only held on by one remaining rope, and was banging up and down alarmingly.
Apart from flashing lights at people who don't have theirs on, the best thing just seems to be to get out of the way and leave them to discover for themselves the hard way.
How to signal to other drivers - MarkP
Rather than flashing my lights at people who've forgotten theirs, which can easily be misinterpreted, I tend to turn my own lights OFF for a second or so.

This usually has the desired effect, after the other driver has spent a few seconds wondering "why's that idiot just turned his lights off..."
How to signal to other drivers - Galaxy
These days I just wouldn't do it at all. I used to, years ago, but things are different today. My well meaning gesticulations, or the flashing of headlights are just as likely to be interpreted as road rage, with possible dire consequences.

I'd rather stay safe and mind my own business, I think.
How to signal to other drivers - Jonathan {p}
Forgive me, but I think that is a rather selfish attitude.

Could you live with yourself, knowing that you could have prevented a fatal accident, which killed a child? I know that I couldn't. Whenever I have seen something potentially dangerous on a car, I have always tried to signal to the driver or passenger if it was safe to do so. This has included writing in marker pen on paper for example TYRE, if their tyre was flat. This is not dangerous, as long as you have paper and a marker pen to hand, you dont even have to take your eyes off the road.

It doesn't have to be descriptive or even accurate as long as they know you are trying to tell them something is wrong.
Everyone I have tried to tell as waved to say thankyou, no-one has got nasty.

Sounds like there aren't many samaritans left.

Jonathan
How to signal to other drivers - Mark (RLBS)
I don't know about selfish, but I think its rather OTT.

If I see a driver with a problem, then I will signal. If I am in a traffic jam where there could be a problem, then there is also time for me to walk forward or back to the other car.

If I am on a motorway or other fast road, then if it is safe, I signal.

Never had a problem. Well, not quite true but that was about 20 years ago.

M.
How to signal to other drivers - Jonathan {p}
FAO Galaxy, no offence intended, it was merely a personal view.
How to signal to other drivers - Dynamic Dave
This has included writing in marker pen on paper for example
TYRE, if their tyre was flat. This is not dangerous, as long
as you have paper and a marker pen to hand, you dont even
have to take your eyes off the road.


I presume you are the passenger whilst scribbling down a note about others drivers woes?
How to signal to other drivers - Jonathan {p}
Both a passenger and driver at sometime or other.
How to signal to other drivers - Dynamic Dave
Both a passenger and driver at sometime or other.


And you say in your previous post this isn't dangerous? The mind boggles!!
How to signal to other drivers - TrevorP
"Forgive me, but I think that is a rather selfish attitude"

Hmmm.

"It doesn't have to be descriptive or even accurate as long as they know you are trying to tell them something is wrong."

Wonderful.

Would you please tell us (for THAT is is the whole point of the question) what your TOTALLY unambiguous signalling system (that NONE of us know of - remember) is?



How to signal to other drivers - Jonathan {p}
Sorry if this is a little bit Bogush style.

TrevorP

If you are going to quote me, then please do it in it's entirity, as only choosing little bits changes the context.

I also said (but you didn't quote) "Whenever I have seen something potentially dangerous on a car, I have always tried to signal to the driver or passenger if it was safe to do so".

Please note the word "tried". I didn't say that I was successful.

"Forgive me, but I think that is a rather selfish attitude"
Hmmm.


That is is a personal viewpoint, to which I am entitled to have. The point I was trying to make was that not trying to help because you may be abused is (in my opinion). Where do you draw the line? A woman getting beaten up? A pensioner having their purse stolen? What about someone trying to abduct your child?

Now I'm sorry if these examples are a little excessive, but they represent the same issue, trying to stop someone else getting hurt.
"It doesn't have to be descriptive or even accurate as long
as they know you are trying to tell them something is
wrong."
Wonderful.


I know.

Say you have a pen and paper to hand and can make a note safely. Would you write "your off side rear tyre is getting low and you might want to check it out". or simply write "tyre"? Similarly, if the load on their roof rack was about to blow off, would you say that in as many words, or simply communicate "roof"?
Would you please tell us (for THAT is is the whole
point of the question) what your TOTALLY unambiguous signalling system (that
NONE of us know of - remember) is?


Is that better?
How to signal to other drivers - Blue {P}
If someone in the car next to me started waving a note with "Tyre" written on it, I think I would realise what they were on about. Probably more so than if they started pointing.

However, I must point out that I hope never to need someone else to tell me that my tyre is flat! I think I'm a big enough boy to realise that for myself! :)

Blue
How to signal to other drivers - Mark (RLBS)
Trevor,

Cut the agressive nonsense. You are quite capable of being polite and you don;t have to be confrontational.

That's twice. Best we don't have the need for a third time.


Mark (RLBS)
Moderator at Work

mailto:mark_moderator@honestjohn.co.uk
How to signal to other drivers - Dynamic Dave
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How to signal to other drivers - Pat L
Jonathan,

Totally agree with you. Too many people ignore dangerous situations, disgraceful road manners, etc. I find that I just can't turn a blind eye and try to communicate my feelings when necessary. At the risk of taking on the role of traffic educator (I'm a teacher, so perhaps old habits die hard!) I often feel that a signal of some sort is necesary, particularly where safety is concerned.

To those who conveniently keep a low profile what about these scenerios:

a) you are doing 30 mph in a 30 zone and someone overtakes you at 50+ mph?
b) a biker overtakes you in a 40 zone down the centre of the road with on-coming traffic - and does a wheelie at 60+ mph?
c) cars with fog lights on from dusk onwards, regardless of weather conditions?
d) drivers jumping red lights at road works where there is only one carriageway open?
e)loads of others!!

Should we just carry on regardless? In rural areas the police presence is minimal at best, so perhaps we have a civic duty to express our concern to other drivers.

Discuss with reference to specific examples.

Pat
How to signal to other drivers - TrevorP
Does anybody on this Forum really feel qualified to tell others how to drive? (remembering that Paul Ripley advised against it).

If they do, I repeat my earlier question -

Please advise what the SAFE unambiguous signalling system is.

If there is one - I may consider using it.
How to signal to other drivers - SteveH42
The trouble as I see it is that people signal to drivers for too many reasons. Someone coming the other way flashes you. You check your lights are on (if necessary) double check that the car feels OK so what else do you do? Pull over and give the car a close inspection? If I'd done that every time someone flashed me for some inexplicable reason then I'd have wasted hours and found nothing.

IMO, you should never flash to indicate grievance or in recognition - save it for danger situations. It's getting to the point where I take little notice of people flashing because most of the time I can't see an obvious reason. However, I'm worried that one of these days someone will have good reason to flash and I won't realise.

It would be nice to have some easy way to warn people of problems with their car - open doors, blown bulbs etc, but it's impossible to tell what someone is trying to tell you so it's not worth the effort and just causes confusion.
How to signal to other drivers - frostbite
The flashers I do appreciate are the ones telling me there's a mobile speed camera hidden just up the road.
How to signal to other drivers - Dave_TD
Around this way that's generally accompanied by a "thumbs-down" signal, most people get the message. Of course, if you've got 50 colleagues on the road, all with two-way radios, we all get to know what's happening where pretty quickly! :-)
How to signal to other drivers - HF
Hi,

Well, just to add my irrelevant bit to this conversation - I DO flash at other drivers if they have no lights on in the dark. Even thiswories me a bit, in case they take the wrong attitude and then go after me. But that risk I am willing to take, because of course it is a really dangerous thing to drive in dark without lights - and I would be truly appreciative of anyone who flashed at me if I'd forgotten to put lights on in darkness.

All the other things mentioned, I would not feel safe to flash for - it's sad, but the risk of retaliation or road-rage is just too great these days.
HF
How to signal to other drivers - Blue {P}
Agreed HF, and based on your experience and that of people I know, I'm choosey about when I use the horn now as well...

Blue
How to signal to other drivers - HF
Yep, Blue

am terrified of using the horn on most occasions! Just in case! Usually just let it be, let it go - just that one time in a million when things are really bad, brain just can't take anymore! - and that's when the temptation is to use it. I'm sure we all know this feeling, and I think I'd be fairly near 100% right in my guess that you feel pretty much the same as I do in this. Not meaning that you are scared, like i can be, but that your principles are the same, or similar.
Always be choosey, Blue, it is just not worth risking yourself.
HF
How to signal to other drivers - RichieW
I have to say that MarkP's suggestion sounds very good and I will certainly use it in future.

I never use the horn as from past experience I have always been trying to avoid head on collisions when the moment has arose and have been trying to steer out of danger. Its always been idiots trying overtake on single carriageways.

The only time I think the horn is useful is a very short hoot when someone has lost their concentration either at traffic lights (On green) or on the motorway when they drive like they are literally falling asleep. The only useful thing I find about about the horn is that it is less direct than hand signals and the person that it is intended for may not know where the signal is coming from. It may save you a beating if there is a lot of traffic about. We live in nasty times.
How to signal to other drivers - HF
> The only useful thing
I find about about the horn is that it is less
direct than hand signals and the person that it is intended
for may not know where the signal is coming from. It
may save you a beating if there is a lot of
traffic about. We live in nasty times.

>>

Yes. Only time I even consider using my horn is when I am driving through for example a narrow alleyway and it is just responsible to warn anyome coming from the other direction that I am there.

Only other time, and I honestly cannot recall doing it more than once, is the situation in my roadrage problem the other week. And, MB (I believe it was you, sorry if it wasn't!) I understand fully why these posts that some of us write do NOT give you the full story. All the arguments here are one-sided and the other party is not usually present. I DO take your point, but also I think it's great that we can all come here and have a moan, mouth off a little, calm down a little, and just get some feedback, calming or otherwise, from others who are here.

Guess that's just how it is - well as long as I can keep coming here and learning things, and also finding some enjoyment along the way, then I will continue to be very thankful that I found this site.
HF
How to signal to other drivers - Blue {P}
My horn has genuinely saved my life (well probably) on one occasion, when a huge Toyota pickup came bearing down on me on the wrong side of the road. A frantic blast from me and he looked up from the radio and veered back onto the correct side. :) Unfortunately I had no time to take any other avoiding action as I had just rounded a corner to see this thing almost on me!

If I hadn't had the horn he would almost certainly have slammed into my (old) Fiesta, and I think I know who would have came off worse!

HF - Believe me, if some big bloke got out of his car and started running towards me, I would be scared, I like my face in it's current design! :) Plus I worry that even if they didn't get me, they could give the car a good kicking...

Blue
How to signal to other drivers - LHM
Seems like opinion is split fairly evenly between the 'Good Samaritan' and the 'avoid confusion and confrontation' camps!

I do feel obliged to remind PatL that there is quite a difference between attempting to communicate with another driver to inform him/her of a defective vehicle, and taking on the rôle of 'traffic educator' (or 'disgruntled of East Grinstead').

The scenarios presented would appear to belong in the latter category, and this suggests that Pat may have to spend a great deal of time 'communicating' his/her feelings on today's roads.

Many other examples of poor driving are to be found every day - which, in 'teacher speak' could be left as 'an exercise for the student' :-)

As the Good Book says, "before removing the mote from thy neighbour's eye, attend the beam in thine own".
How to signal to other drivers - Chris M
Having posted the original question and followed the subsequent debate, I would still come down on the side of doing something rather than ignore. As Jonathan pointed out, could we live with ourselves if an accident occurred and someone were killed?

I had dealings with a bodily injury claim a few years ago where a roof rack came off a car, causing an accident. A passenger in a following car was TOTALLY paralysed from the waist down, she couldn't even breath for herself. Trapped inside a useless body was an intellegent woman; who incidentally won record damages for the time. My point is that, had I been in a position to warn the driver of the car with the loose roof rack, risking a punch on the noise would have been a small price to pay.

I do understand those that would prefer not to get involved, but if everyone were like that, what would our society be like? What, for example, would be the point of having an alarm on your car if the thief knew no passer by would take any notice?

Chris M
How to signal to other drivers - dan
That bloke probably thought you were plod motioning him to pull over. Then he must have realised you weren't (could you see his rage from your rear mirror?) and didn't think for a second that you were trying to help.

Unfortunately l now use my horn more to say "Idiot!" after an event than for its proper uses.
How to signal to other drivers - Chris M
Sorry, should read paralysed from the neck down.

Chris M